Mother was a housewife. When I was 14, Father had to work away from home. But we mostly saw each other on weekends. I was already a teenager and was busy with school activities, so I never really missed having him around.
I had a completely different childhood than what my son is experiencing now.
Now that I am a Mother myself, I often wonder, how do kids feel when
- their Moms have to go to work very early in the morning, and arrive home at 9pm the earliest
- they have long distance relationships with their Fathers
- sometimes they don't even get to see their Moms everyday
I want to understand what's going on in their minds and how this will impact them when they grow up.
Do they grow up sad?
Not talking to their parents?
I asked a friend, whose parents are in the same profession as mine, how did he feel when he was just a child?
He said, his parents sent him to the kampung to be taken care by his grandparents. Then, his parents took him back. During lunchtime, he stayed at his babysitter's house. Then, he went to the boarding school...
But how do you really feel?
Have you ever felt neglected? Sad? Simply give up on your parents?
Am I just overreacting? My son won't remember all this, yet.
But I will. And I pray not to be haunted by this decision, ever.
3 hours ago