Tuesday, October 4, 2022

Tadi sebab upset, jom kita cerita santai sikit.

About 3 weeks ago, I think, ada orang message I, nak berkenalan. Hahahaha! I don't know who this person was. He was like, "Askum. Bz kew?" Seriously, how old are you!

I was opening the Whatsapp Web in my desktop. Showed the text message to my staff, and I thought he got the wrong person. Because, my staff is younger and prettier complete dengan kulit licin, putih, gebu. So, I replied- I think you got the wrong person. Tell me who are you really looking for.

This guy pun cakap- Saya cari kawan. Itu pun kalau awak sudi...

Hahaha...I malas nak layan. So, I pun berterus terang je lah- Sorry, I am not available.

My staff cakap, "Mesti orang ni ingat Miss ni kerja kerani." Yeah, I get that a lot.

Anyway, seperti biasa, mestilah excited. Dah tua-tua ni, ada peminat pulak...Dah lah pergi kerja bare face. Skincare routine is working out!

Betullah...Sebab last week, I brought my son to Kidzania. And while waiting for my son outside of the playroom, there was this one tween/ teen who thought I was lining up to play! "Kak, akak tengah beratur ke?"

Adik...If only you knew I am entering my 40s.

Must be of what I wore kot...I don't know lah.

Disebabkan last week, I balik jumpa Mother, I pun cerita je lah pasal ada orang nak berkenalan. Ye lah, nak cerita pada siapa lagi? I actually told my husband but got 'meh' reaction from him.

Then you know what Mother said to me? Basically, Mother pun tak heran because...My 65 year-old aunt, a widower, apparently dah ada 5 orang ajak dia kahwin! Hahahaha! Totally stole my thunder! 

I don't know why but I am so bothered after my 6 year-old daughter told me about what happened to her 2 weeks ago.

She's in kindergarden and her closest friends are Jess and Gina (not real names). She is always thinking about them, like, can they come for a sleepover, can I buy this toy for them too, I want to make bracelets for them, Jess this, Gina that...

And I am happy for her. They seem like nice girls and that's why my daughter loves them so much.

We were on a holiday last week. Naturally, before we went, my daughter was all excited and told her friends about the plan.

Tapi I tak tau lah, diorang ni jealous ke apa, 2 days before we left, Jess told the whole class not to talk to my daughter for the whole day. And nobody was allowed to sit with her.

She told me this yesterday. And then she said, "So, I sat alone and drew a broken heart."

And that broke my heart! Geram tau, kecik-kecik dah mean girls! And, I was like, "Aw, she's just jealous of you. Why is she so mean!"

And my daughter still defended them, "They didn't talk to me for one day only, Mommy. We are friends now."

I'm so upset and bothered. Why lah do like that to my daughter. I bukanlah nak bias ke apa, but Baby H ni memang baik sangat. She's so empathatic, kind, loving, helpful, generous and polite. And tengoklah, she didn't even tell me this right away, semalam baru cerita...

Am I just being protective, or overdramatic.. I don't know. I diam je lah, tak adalah nak halang my kid from being friends with her. I just told my daughter not to be like her. Tapi deep down, sekarang ni, I tak suka si Jess ni! Mean girl vibe sangat!